Woman dumps pastor to be second wife

By Nyasa Times- Malawi

Published: March 25, 2011

A love relationship between a Lilongwe Pentecostal Church pastor’s wife in Malawi and a businessman, Francis Malazi, has shocked Lilongwe’s Area 23 residents, Friday’s scandal-tabloid has reported.
“What has confounded the residents and particularly relatives is that the pastor’s wife, Sphiwe Thera, has left the man of God with four children for whom she is the biological mother,” reports the paper.
According to the Weekend Times, in its main story headlined ‘Pastor’s wife romps with businessman’, “the last born [child] is as young as three years old.”

Nyasa Times reported last year about Malazi and Sphiwe that they were captured in nude pictures circulating on e-mails when they were living in UK. They were both deported.
While in UK, the Sphiwe abandoned her Pastor husband to be second wife of  Malazi, proprietor of FAM Investments and AM Logistics.
“It really pains to see a pastor’s marriage being destroyed because of money. And to her foolishness, the pastor’s wife has decided to become a second wife to Malazi yet she was happily married to a single man, the bishop,” the paper quotes one of the relatives.
The pastor stay close with Malazi and Sphiwe in a Lilongwe’s Area 23 township.—Nyasa Times

Comments

BROTHREN,

My comment is based on the decision made by these three people: Siphiwe, yes you had issues in your marriage but its wrong to leave your own children and allow yourself to be the second wife to somebody, it would have been better to get resolve the issue between yourself and your husband; Malazi, i feel sorry to you for what you have done is a terriobel sin before God, there are alot of nice ladies who are not yet married why clinging to someones wife, its relly a shame on you; Paster, this is one of the blunders most pasters have. They don’t want to invite someone whenever they have issues in their homes. This is tipical bedroom problem with this paster. How will people then trust you with teachings if you are failing to satstfy your wife in bedroom. Inclusion, its not over God is in control lets put our trust on him whenver things do work on our side. AMEN.

  Dont judge. This lady has four children with the pastor. how come that she should change like that? Pastor sit down and take stock of your life. How were u treating your wife? Was she a wife or a slave of mind? Were u giving love and support to this lady? Was she your seccond priority after God or last?

Well, if you are innocent in all family aspects then ask God to show you the way out. but if you were a big problem in the marriage and the source of sorrow to this lady, then you better ask for forgiveness from God for making this lady to devalue herself to the point of committing adultery(sp) and for denying your children their mum’s love.

To all men, this should be a lesson. Most of you married men you take your wives for granted. Remember, ladies need love, your availability and support other than too muchjudgemental critisms. you learn when you are corrected in a lovely manner.

Please, Christians, let us lead by example in our families. This gives glory the name of our father in heaven.